Showing posts with label small business. Show all posts
Showing posts with label small business. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

guest post & a GIVEAWAY!

Hey everyone, Ashley here. I am so excited to introduce you to Kelly, the woman behind Tadpole Togs. She does really adorable crochet toys and baby clothes, and today she is giving away a $20 credit to her Etsy Shop! Her items are super affordable, so you can get lots of cool stuff! All you need to do to enter is visit Tadpole Togs Facebook page, like the page, then leave a comment on the blog post saying that you did so! A winner will be chosen randomly on Friday. Be sure to leave your email address so we can contact you to let you know you've won!!

Now, I'll let Kelly take it from here!


When I was about 3, I was on the phone with my Nanny (my mother’s mother). I was trying to tell her a story and getting very frustrated. Finally, I gave up. “I can’t tell it right,” I said, “you can’t see my hands.”
Nan understood completely. After all, her hands were never still, either. She was always crocheting, knitting, or sewing; making stained glass, or decoupage; tending the forest of plants that filled her window, or cooking, or cleaning. And yes, as the daughter of Italian immigrants, talking with her hands!

Along with the hand gestures, I inherited a little bit of Nan’s creativity and craftiness. Knitting requires too much coordination, and stained glass too much health insurance (at least the way I would do it.) I have my own forest of plants, and I’m not a bad cook. We won’t get into my cleaning skills, such as they aren’t. And although I learned how to crochet a long time ago, it wasn’t until recently that I became passionate about it.
See, there was no need to be while Nan was around. If you told her someone was having a baby, she’d have a layette set ready for them the next time you saw her. Your bedspread looking a little shabby? There would be a new one in your favorite color under the tree next Christmas. The tree that was decorated with the most beautiful, delicate crochet angels that she, of course, had made. Honestly, it was intimidating.
After Nan passed away, I felt sad that the new mothers in our family wouldn’t be able to bring their babies home in an outfit Nan had made. Those babies wouldn’t play outside in one of her snowsuits, or snuggle under her homemade afghans. It didn’t occur to me that I could take over the task.
Until it did.

Several years ago,I bought some crochet hooks and an economy sized skein of light blue yarn. I made yards of chains and row after row of single and double crochet, trying to make my hands remember what to do.  I remembered how much I loved it and how connected it made me feel to the women in my family in general, and Nan in particular. Even now, it’s her voice I hear telling me what to do when I’m not sure of the next step.

Eventually I graduated to actual projects. Layettes for new babies; hats and sweaters, toys. I bought a chalkboard to keep track of all the things I wanted to make next. And then I ran out of family. Everyone had something I made, but I wanted to make more. 

That’s when I decided to open an Etsy store. I envision it as a place for people with children in their lives whom they love very much.  I want someone to look through my shop and say, “Yes, my favorite little one (or their parent) would love this. It’s exactly what I would make for them if I had the time or the inclination.” Each of my items is made from hypoallergenic yarns. All embellishments are fastened securely and all eyes are safety eyes. I want people to feel confident gifting my creations to the most important little people in their lives.

This is my way of staying connected to Nan. I want, like she once did, to know that somewhere in the world, someone is happy because of something I created.

And it gives me something to do with my hands.

Come by and check me out!






Isn't she wonderful? I totally am with her on the talking with your hands... we Italians tend to be a little animated :) Go take a look at her shop, and don't forget to comment below after you like her Facebook page, to be entered for the $20 store credit giveaway!!


Saturday, March 16, 2013

my life, as written by nicholas sparks

I have a confession to make.

I am completely, ridiculously, one hundred percent a sucker for Nicholas Sparks books.

I know, I know. Travesty. They are formulaic and predictable, and 
THEY. GET. ME. EVERY. TIME.

Tell me you haven't read one and not been bawling like a child at the end, full of all kinds of conflicting emotions? I rest my case.

Anyway, it's this love of Nicholas Sparks, and all things OBX and North Carolina, that prompted my husband and I to move to New Bern (home of Nicholas Sparks, and setting for several of his books, if you didn't know.)

Our goal was always to live by the coast, and one day, we just made it happen. My husband got a job over the phone (he's skilled that way), we found an apartment over the phone, and we jumped in a moving truck and drove 11 hours from Alabama to our new home, without ever stepping foot in the town. Hindsight being what it is, we probably should have done a bit more preparing. For instance, when we arrived after our treacherous 11 hour drive in a moving truck, we found that the apartment was 1. in the ghetto and 2. disgusting. It was slightly discouraging.

But, we got out of that situation quickly, thankfully, and now live in a wonderful neighborhood, in a nice home, that we are comfortable raising our son in.

Sometimes, though, I am reminded just how blessed I am to live here. New Bern is a very cool place, in my opinion. It sits on the Neuse River, about 40 minutes from the Atlantic Ocean, and has one of the quaintest, most eclectic downtown areas I've ever seen. The arts community is alive and well here, and people actively support local businesses, which I love.

All of this was displayed in full force this weekend, when we have a beautiful, 80 degrees and sunny day, and I decided to take little D on an adventure. Daddy had to work, and we were getting out of this house, dang-it!

First, we hit up the Farmer's Market. It's a small market, with only a few vendors, but everything is hand-crafted or grown, and it is an amazing sampling of the flavors of New Bern. Baby D, of course, was a huge hit with the older crowd, and flirted his cute little baby booty off with the old ladies. I came across an older lady selling beautiful handmade baby toys, and knew D had to have one immediately. I am in love with this little guy... he is super soft, extremely well crafted and the perfect size for D's chubby little fingers. He held on to him all day, feeling the material. It was the cutest thing ever.

 

After the Farmer's Market, we browsed some of the neat little shops downtown. We went to Nauti Paws, a  pet store that specializes in gourmet dog treats, so you know I had to get Bruno a little something :) This place is adorable, and has a great selection of treats, clothes, leashes... you name it, you can find it for your pet here. And Bruno died over the treats when we got home. He's not usually a fan of the crunchy treats, but he freaked out over these, so I'm assuming they're good. (I did not taste test. I was tempted, but refrained.)

Don't they look delish? Dog treats, people. They're dog treats.

Oh yeah. He was pleased.


When D got hungry, I sat outside at a little raw bar downtown called MJ's Raw Bar & Grill, and had me some fish and chips while I fed him. Yum. Excellent service, excellent food, great atmosphere. 


After lunch, we perused downtown a little bit more, visiting the quaint boutiques and shops, and taking in the local flair.










Basically, my day was completely idyllic, in a total Nicholas Sparks novel way. Without the drama. Or the crying.

But you get the point. If you ever need a vacation destination, or just want to visit somewhere cute for a day, New Bern is the place to go!


*None of these establishments know who I am, nor was I compensated in any way for my opinions. They are just that, only my opinions!*